Ok. You've seen the ocean adventure, now here's what we were doing at the pool. The first day I took Alex in the pool with no floatation device. After a few minutes of doing that, I knew that wasn't going to get it (he was going to wear me out) so I knew he needed something to wear. When I was purchasing the inner tube at the store, you would have thought it was something terrible. He didn't want it. Was crying (faking) and just acting like it was overall scary. WHATEVER! Ignored! You will see below it was purchased, worn and enjoyed.
So I started out by still holding on to him while in the inner tube. I informed him that he should kick his feet and move his arms in order to get around. I did more dragging him around though.
He liked going back to the stairs because at the stairs is where he wanted to take the inner tube off and then just get in the water. No Dude! He really didn't understand that although he could stand on that bottom step, there was no more after that.
Then I realized he was motioning his arms in a swimming position. So I told myself, "I think you can let go."
After that...he was on his own. Back and forth from Mom (in the water) to Pappy (on the steps).
At this point, I was quite impressed. What a difference a day (couple hours) makes.
WORK IT ALEX!
Grammy got the action! Watch him make it to the wall.
Here's a moment when he had to have the inner tube off and so I let him. He tells me he wants to go in the deep water. Uhhh, no you don't. Now he wanted to get lose so much that if we would have had his ear plugs in his ears, I probably would have let him feel/experience what walking off that bottom step felt like (knowing I was right there).
Pool #2 - He's so good he wants to race.
After 2 pools and the ocean, it was time to go inside.
While in the bathtub, I knew sleepiness was coming. He wasn't really having conversation with me and shortly after Grammy lotioned him up and put his clothes on, this happened for 3 hours. After getting his clothes on, he walked out of the bedroom into the living room, grabbed a pillow from the couch and proceeded to lay on the floor. That's when good ol' dad said "Come Here" and lights out he went! Everyone needs some good where you out fun!
Adventures of Alex this last week
Conversation riding home from school one day
Alex: The crows ate all the seeds
Me: Oh really, did you put more seeds out
Alex: Yes, the crows ate all the seeds so we put more out
Me: Good. Where do crows live?
Alex: On the farm
Me: Oh ok.
Alex: You have to put a scarecrow out to scare them away.
Alex: I'm a scarecrow expert!
Role Play Around the House
He's like to put beads around his neck and say he is the doctor. He will ask you what's the matter and then simply touch or rub it and then you pretend it's fixed. Then he gives you the beads and you're the doctor.
I was in K2's room, looking around as we are beginning to make adjustments in there, and Alex spotted some luggage and started to play with it. He rolled the suitcase and said "I'm gonna do my personal work." Then he came back and told me the suitcase had everything he needed. He said (although there was not) there was a pink dress in there for me and daddy will like that. Then he found a business card in the luggage and said "I got the news!" He told me what the news said...nothing. Then said it's a "ba-tation" as in invitation. Too Funny.
Alex and K2
Alex is very aware that "there's a baby in there". He touches/rubs her everyday and tells people that "mommy is going to have a sister." While we have tried to explain along with his teachers at school, that YOU are having a sister...that's just what he likes to say.
He knows to be very gentle when around other babies and wants to help in anyway possible. He ask about once a week "is the baby coming out?", he says "oh I love her" and will even randomly kiss my stomach. Can't quite catch a picture of that yet. I tried to let him feel her moving, but I don't know if he REALLY felt it. After I know she moved (with his hands on my stomach), I'll say "did you feel that?", his eyes get big and he'll say "yeahhhhhh". And I'm thinking "yeah right". He says she's crawling around.
So we'll continue to see what it will all be like!
K2
Still working on a name, but I FINALLY made my first purchase for her.
Yep, a pair of 2T pink pants that cost $1.97 at Old Navy. Hahahah. I mean who can resist at tag that says $1.97. Who cares if she can't wear them in her first year of life. One to grow on!